OK, I'm in need of some advice from all you moms out there. MD's started something new - freaking out in his crib and not wanting to go to sleep alone. Eek!
He's been doing this for a month or so at his 2nd caregiver's place, but not with either my mom or me. Well, a few weeks back he started standing in my mom's crib. Then, last week, with me. Which isn't really the problem - the problem is that the minute we lay him down to sleep, he freaks out and pops up to a standing position and CAN'T GET HIMSELF BACK DOWN!
See, he's not quite walking on his own yet. He can pull up on things and get himself in a standing position but then he can't get himself back down. So, if we let him stand in his crib, in hopes of him laying down on his own and going to sleep, it absolutely won't happen. We've tried.
What we have to do is go in there, lay him down, tuck him in, and put our hand on his chest until he is completely asleep. If he's not 100% asleep, the second we walk away from his crib, he freaks out, stands up and wails.
So, I know he's gotta figure out how to get back down from a standing position on his own - but, is there anything I can do in the meantime? I'm so afraid he's already learned that:
Standing in his crib and crying = mommy comes in and takes care of me!
Ugh!!! I definitely don't want to start that. But, there is absolutely no other way to get him to sleep. And, I can't let him not sleep and/or nap. It's not good for him.
Anyway, any advice you seasoned moms might have would help me tremendously! Even to just say you've been through this. Because, of course, I find myself feeling like I'm the only one and this is going to last forever.
Thanks guys!